Lynda
How did the change happen?
It was advertised locally in my local area through flyers and posters.
The proximity of these places (Cake and Cuppa) is manageable and very much appreciated because they're within walking distance in my local community.
Later I got a text from the GP’s surgery.
I decided to go because my partner has cancer, which was diagnosed within the first lockdown year, so it was a very frightening and isolating time. We both needed company, to mix face-to-face with people who were undergoing a similar experience.
What Changed?
Although I don’t have cancer myself, my partner does. I wasn’t coping well, and I was worried he wasn’t speaking to anyone. The other night I felt very emotional when my partner asked, “I wonder how you’d feel if I became a Cancer Champion?” That wouldn’t have happened without this place. (Local Cake and Cuppa)
Coming to the Cake and Cuppa sessions has made my life better as it’s a safe, understanding and welcoming place.
(Later Lynda agreed to be a Cancer Champion herself) I was encouraged to be a Cancer Champion and attended a brilliant training session which was full of reassurance, clear information, and an opportunity to have my questions answered in such a way that I really wanted to be a Cancer Champion. So, I did! It's helped me feel an actual part of the marvellous work that goes on. Thank You.
Why is it important?
Prior to coming along, (to the Cake and Cuppa sessions) I felt guilty and ashamed asking for help when I wasn’t the person with cancer. Now I feel supported and it’s like yippee I want to go. It’s been hugely important. It’s easy to get to. All the staff are brilliant. I feel like I can approach anyone. The 'aloneness' has been validated, soothed for both of us, and we've gained confidence to talk openly, which we didn't often do before.
It has enabled me to face fear of loss with a newly found courage, hope & confidence, and to be part of an amazing community. I am very grateful. Since becoming a Cancer Champion I have the confidence to respond to the people I meet in my local community when, for example, they say they don't attend any screenings.